Every parent wants the golden key to raising well behaved, academically gifted, successful, happy children. Embedded in our collective psyche is the notion that discipline is the cornerstone to achieving these goals. This book lambasts this notion, offering a never-before-published perspective on why the entire premise of discipline is flawed. Dr Shefali Tsabary shows that the very idea of discipline is a major cause of generations of dysfunction. Out of Control goes to the heart of the problems we have with our children, challenging societys dependence of discipline, daring us to let go of our fear based ideologies and replace them with an approach that draws parent and child together instead of alienating them.